Living with depression

What is depression?

Depression is a common mental disorder characterised by feelings of sadness that last longer than usual. Everyone has times they feel sad or down, but depression is more severe than that and can last for weeks or months.

If you have depression, you may also find you have other mental or physical health problems too, such as anxiety or a reliance on substances like alcohol, nicotine or drugs.

What are the symptoms?

Psychological symtpoms Physical symptoms

• Continuous low mood or sadness

• Feeling hopeless and helpless

• Having low self-esteem

• Feeling tearful

• Feeling guilt-ridden

• Feeling irritable and intolerant of others

• Having no motivation or interest in things

• Finding it difficult to make decisions

• Not getting any enjoyment out of life

• Feeling anxious or worried

• Having suicidal thoughts or thoughts of harming yourself

• Moving or speaking more slowly than usual

• Changes in appetite of weight, whether losing interest in food or eating more

• Constipation

• Unexplained aches and pains

• Lack of energy

• Low sex drive

• Changes to your menstrual cycle

• Disturbed sleep — for example, finding it difficult to fall asleep at night or waking up very early in the morning

Source: NHS https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/clinical-depression/symptoms/

How can you manage the symptoms?

Talk to someone

It might seem like the hardest thing to do but talk to someone about how you are feeling. Choose someone you trust – a friend, a family member, a colleague, your doctor. This is the first step to recovery.

Ask for professional help

If you think you may be depressed, please talk to your doctor as soon as possible. They will be able to help you get treatment for your symptoms.

A doctor may refer you to a psychologist to help you build skills to deal with the stresses you are under. Psychological therapy can also teach you how to reframe negative thoughts.

They may also recommend taking more exercise, using mental health apps, self-help techniques or antidepressants among other things.

The sooner you ask for help, the sooner you can begin your journey to feeling better. 

What to do if you're feeling suicidal

If you’re having thoughts about harming yourself or feeling like you want to die, it’s important to reach out for help. Please don’t struggle with these thoughts alone. There are organisations that can help you. 

Here is a list of helplines you can call. You can also call these helplines if you’re concerned about someone else. 

Helplines for everyone

Samaritans 

Call 116 123

Open 24 hours, seven days a week

Email jo@samaritans.org

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)

Call 0800 58 58 58

Open 5pm to midnight every day

Visit the webchat page

SOS Suicide of Silence

Call 0300 1020 5050

Open 8 am to midnight every day

Email support@sossilenceofsuicide.org

 

Helpline for people under 35

Papyrus

Call 0800 068 41 41

Open 9am to midnight every day

Text 07860 039 967

Email pat@papyrus-uk.org 

Helpline for children and young people under 19

Childline

Call 0800 111

Open 9am to 3.30 am every day

The number won’t show on your phone bill

Aviva supports your mental health

We want to help you when things become too much. If you’re experiencing stress, anxiety, depression or burn-out, it can be difficult to get back on track. Aviva can help you manage and improve your mental health by providing you with helpful information.